One important detail we should all take care of before it’s too late is making our final arrangements and letting our family know what those are. Many veterans I’ve talked to assume that when the time comes, the VA will take care of it. Nothing could be further from the truth! Your veterans burial benefits are there to help but the decisions about what kind of funeral you want, where you want to be buried, etc. are up to you. 

 All too often these details are not discussed because, let’s face it, it’s uncomfortable. Then when the time comes, the surviving family members want to do the best for their loved one and all too often end up spending a lot more money than they needed to. 

 The easiest way to do this is to make an appointment with a reputable funeral director and make your plans ahead of time. They will present your options and keep a record of your choices so when the time comes your family will know what your wishes are.

For more information about the "Thank A Vet Program" go to https://www.johnstonnc.gov/rod/content.cfm?pageid=190

It’s important to have certain information available for your surviving family members. One of the most important, but often overlooked forms is your DD214. This is one of the first things the VA will ask for when processing your benefits. Make sure you have a copy available. An easy way to accomplish this is through the Johnston County Register of Deeds “Thank A Vet Program.”

When you record your DD214 at their office they will issue a photo ID card. This card can be shown at local participating merchants in order to obtain a discount from that merchant. More importantly, your DD214 will be kept in a safe place and available when you need it.

Another important task is to complete a Personal Affairs Record. This is a detailed listing of all your personal and financial information. Basically, it’s a record of your life.